Marriage, or any true relationship for that matter, is much more complicated than we figured when we first married. Most couples get married without knowing anything about marriage except the example that their parents set. We walk into marriage with a set of attitudes that are mostly immature. Hopefully, we outgrow them in time, but knowing what these attitudes are can help us to grow our marriage.
The ten most common mistakes that husbands make in their marriages. If husbands will focus on even a few of these and make them better, their marriage will improve dramatically.
There are many factors that explain why men often struggle to communicate. Not every man thinks the same way, and not every man will feel that what I say here fits him exactly. There are men who are great communicators, but by in large, the general complaint I hear from wives is: “We never talk!”
Everyone has expectations. In marriage, we enter it expecting certain things. No one looks at someone else and says, “If I marry you, I’ll be so utterly miserable. Will you marry me?” No we expect things. We expect our mate to be faithful to us. We expect our spouse to love us. We expect our friends to back us up. We expect things from the government, from our boss, from our coworkers, and from life itself. We are full of expectations. But what happens when our expectations are unrealistic?
Ever tried to penetrate the tough guy facade? Or been turned away by the ‘I don’t need you or anyone else’ face? Have you tried to reason with a rebellious teenager? There is a secret to winning someone’s heart.
Although it is impossible to lump every woman—or man—into a single category, in the decade that I have been counseling marriages, I have found that the vast majority of women who struggle in their marriage all lack the same ingredient. It seems to be a secret to most men as to what this ingredient is and, strangely, most women can’t put a finger on it either, they just know something is wrong. It’s a secret that shouldn’t be a secret.
Is there some magic formula? Do you have to be talented, intelligent, well spoken, successful, or is it merely increasing your love for your spouse? Do you need a special skill set? Find out if you have what it takes to have a happy marriage.
The Divine Ingredient is the mixing of God’s Divine Nature into your heart, mind, and relationships. This connects you to God’s Divine Power and then adds the euphoric taste of God’s goodness into your life.
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