Marriage, or any true relationship for that matter, is much more complicated than we figured when we first married. Most couples get married without knowing anything about marriage except the example that their parents set. We walk into marriage with a set of attitudes that are mostly immature. Hopefully, we outgrow them in time, but knowing what these attitudes are can help us to grow our marriage.
The ten most common mistakes that husbands make in their marriages. If husbands will focus on even a few of these and make them better, their marriage will improve dramatically.
Everyone has expectations. In marriage, we enter it expecting certain things. No one looks at someone else and says, “If I marry you, I’ll be so utterly miserable. Will you marry me?” No we expect things. We expect our mate to be faithful to us. We expect our spouse to love us. We expect our friends to back us up. We expect things from the government, from our boss, from our coworkers, and from life itself. We are full of expectations. But what happens when our expectations are unrealistic?
Choosing the right words are perhaps the single most important key to ending arguments and avoiding arguments. You’re going to disagree with people, and when you feel it is necessary to voice your disagreement, choosing the right words are essential. No two people can ever agree on everything. When you feel it necessary to voice your disagreement, your approach, your words, your mannerisms all come into play on how other people react to your disagreement.
Although it is impossible to lump every woman—or man—into a single category, in the decade that I have been counseling marriages, I have found that the vast majority of women who struggle in their marriage all lack the same ingredient. It seems to be a secret to most men as to what this ingredient is and, strangely, most women can’t put a finger on it either, they just know something is wrong. It’s a secret that shouldn’t be a secret.
Is there some magic formula? Do you have to be talented, intelligent, well spoken, successful, or is it merely increasing your love for your spouse? Do you need a special skill set? Find out if you have what it takes to have a happy marriage.
The Divine Ingredient is the mixing of God’s Divine Nature into your heart, mind, and relationships. This connects you to God’s Divine Power and then adds the euphoric taste of God’s goodness into your life.
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